First of all, I would like to say :
Happy 19th Birthday
To : Wendy Liu
Have been absent from blogging for so long... And also always being reminded by Wendy to update my blog and yet I kept on forget about it. But, today is your special day. So I update it as my promise. =)
As you all see, my title is : No Hope = No DISAPPOINTMENT
I pick those words from a drama that I watched. One of the character said that she didn't want to have hope so that she wouldn't feel the disappoinment.
What do you think??? Do you agree with this statement???
I kept on thinking about this statement. It is not only after I watched that drama then only I thought of that. It has been in my mind since so long time ago.
Sometimes, I felt that it is better not to hope. Because if in the end the things didn't go as it was wished, the feeling of disappoinment would come. For some people will feel so empty. It feels like there is no determination to go to.
On the other side, hope is a very important factor for people to have their life full of meaning. Having hope is when people will do their best to get what they wished. Maybe the way to get what they were hoping, is not easy. But during that journey, they can learn a lot of things. That is why the life will become meaningful.
Sometimes, I didn't dare to hope because I don't want to feel the feeling of disappointment.
And in this moment, I don't dare to hope to much.
Instead of hoping, I'll do my best to get what I can achieve.
Instead of dreaming, I'll do my best to face the reality.
Eventhough, I also might not get what I aim.
Eventhough, the feeling of disappointment is very painful, I will still do my best.
Because that is the only thing that I can do now.
That is my opinion. How about yours?
